It is not just enough to say you are a friend, i believe every friend needs to earn the right to be called such...a friend.
Let's look at the definition:
A person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.
A person who is not hostile.
A person who is in good terms with another.
Hmmm, good terms hey....that is relative. What exactly does good terms mean?
I'll leave you to meditate on that to arrive at your own conclusion
I like the Urban dictionary's definition better.....lols, here goes:
A real friend is someone who:
a)it's okay to fart in front of.
b)you don't mind talking to on the bus for atleast 20 minutes.
c)can borrow $5 and never has to pay it back
d)you'll actually call up do stuff
a)it's okay to fart in front of.
b)you don't mind talking to on the bus for atleast 20 minutes.
c)can borrow $5 and never has to pay it back
d)you'll actually call up do stuff
My own definition will go along this lines...
A friend is the person who can look you straight in th face and tell you the truth.
A friend will actually take charge when things are falling apart all around you and wont take advantage of the situation to fleece you or disgrace you for a past hurt.
A real friend wont abandon you.
A friend will tell you to cut the crap and shut the hell up when your mouth is outta control.
A friend wont babysit you, but will kick you in the butt and tell you to sit up....hence helping you to develop some back-bone.
Celebrate your friends and the friendship you have with them whilst you still have the time.
Dont ever take your friendship for granted, be considerate always.
Welcome to the month of June...
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