From my original blog, sub titled Taking charge series:
We must have at one time or the other heard about how some women took charge when things got out of wack.
Some women have been known to be firm and some just allow things to ride with the hope that a negative situation will correct itself without lifting a finger.
The story am about to relate here still makes me go....'she's one lucky Lady'.
A high society woman in Nigeria Africa on learning that her husband that she married when he didnt have much. A man that she stood by and helped build wealth is dating a younger lady who i will call 'Ms Smarty Pants'.
Mama Pj was a business woman who helped build an empire with her husband.
She helped build their first house.
Every profit she made from her texile import business went to buying cement, sand, etc etc to build all the houses they owned.
She didnt make it past secondary school(grade 10), all thanks to Baba Pj who got her pregnant. He was a young graduate then.
Mama Pj didnt rest after her first child, she took night classes and later passed her Pitman's exam.
She owned several textile stores and was also a big UAC distributor(distributor of a multi-national company).
She trusted her husband enough to give him money to buy shares in their names.
She ploughed money into his businesses too.
He bought those shares and some more.
Infidelity is one dirty word that some people have become comfortable with.
Mama Pj didnt wring her hands(neither did she start crying or say am finish/done) when she heard that her husband who was then in his early 50s got the itch, has started dating a Ms Smarty pant.
She didnt bother to ask her husband nor chastise him.
She got a close friend of hers to act as a sleuth....they found out more about the girl and where she worked then, where she lived....they studied her for close to 3months.
When they finally decided they have enough information, laid out a plan.( She was so lucky that her plan worked)....if she had tried it now, i doubt if it would have been very effective as some babes are not that easy
Ms Smarty Pants did not just get the man to eat out of her hands, she got him to transfer some of the shares he bought for his family to her.
He had even started building a house for her to boot...he bought her a car and was paying her rent in a high brow area of Victoria-Island in Nigeria, Africa.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRw3z3K_n3E
Hope you enjoyed Marion's video?
Mama Pj confronted the lady and succeeded in collecting all the shares back, collected the documents to the house her husband was building and left the lady with a warning.
I learnt the meeting didnt last more than 1hr....
Hmm....needless to say that as a sampler, Ms Smarty Pants lost her job, she got an eviction notice from her landlord,she had to leave town with her tail between her legs.
Sorry i cant go into full details of how mama PJ achieved that.
Is there someone threatening your peace in your marriage?
Is your husband or partner going through midlife crisis and acting up?
Do you trust your spouse with all your investments?
So you hand over your pay and profits to your partner?
There's nothing wrong in doing all that, but be wise as.....Sh1t happens...when it does, what will you do?
Shoot your way through?
Abandon ship and like a friend said leave your home and children to a stranger?
NB:This is an excerpt from my original post in June 2013, adapted for use in this blog.
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